A family is meant to be a cosy self containing unit, struggling, living, finding love in the littlest moments, and finding strength together.
While helpers or in laws are sometimes welcome, this dynamic can distract from the growth and bonding that needs to be done as a family.
I am finding it difficult to own my family, spouse and my career at the same time, but there are steps to take and adjust, to bring this to balance once again.
As reluctant as I might be, I will have to regain responsibility for the daily grind and life at home.
This is where the learning and the loving takes place.